Sorry I didn’t get a chance to blog about Bachelor in Paradise last week! But I hope to blog about it every week moving forward because I am soooo obsessed! This show is so good! I hate to say it, but I think I’m kind of over the Bachelor and the Bachelorette. It’s the same thing every season, while Bachelor in Paradise seems new and exciting! But even though I’m obsessed, since it airs every Monday and Tuesday each week, I won’t be able to do two blogs every week. I’m a mom of two these days and I just don’t have that much time. Ha! But I’ll try to blog about at least one episode per week or maybe both episodes on Wednesday after they’ve both aired.
What I totally don’t get about the season so far is why everybody is ganging up on Colton. Look, I get that the Tia and Colton situation is complicated. And I completely understand why Tia is upset. She obviously has super strong feelings for Colton and unfortunately it’s pretty clear that he doesn’t feel the same way. I think he took her on a date when he first arrived in paradise because he felt like it was the right thing to do based on their history. And I definitely think he led her out a bit on that date. Even though he didn’t completely commit to her on the date, he definitely made it seem like he was open to them getting back together. And if I were Tia, I would take that as him wanting to take things slow but wanting to be together. But it was pretty obvious when she got back from their date that she thought things were good with them. But that’s really where I think Colton‘s mistakes ended. After that he has been super honest with her and everybody else regarding how he feels about Tia. I think it’s a bit unfair that everyone expects him to immediately commit to her when he got there or totally move on from her. To be completely honest, I think Colton took Tia on the date because he liked the first date they had together 6 months ago and wanted to see where it would go in Paradise. But he quickly saw that she was way more into it and invested after they only had one date together and I think that made him back off. I guess I just think it’s kind of unfair to him that she is sort of claimed him this season when they haven’t gone in a date in over six months or spoken since he left Becca’s season.
And it’s so interesting with the show decides to focus on create drama around. For instance, it’s not like cold and was going around kissing multiple girls. Whereas, Kendall did kiss both Joe and John and nobody says anything about it. In fact, she made out with John at the cocktail party before the rose ceremony and then ended up giving her rose to Joe. How was there not drama around that on the show last night? Don’t get me wrong, I absolutely adore Kendall and I think she’s playing her options as she should. But why is it so different for Tia and Colton because they spent one weekend together 6 months ago? I don’t know. I totally Tia’s side of things but I totally see Colton’s side of things too. It’s an unfortunate situation. I think Tia needs to let it go and move on and Colton should be free to date anybody he wants.
Anyway, I’m so interested to see what all of you think! The woman in me wants to totally be auntie aside. And even though I really feel for her because I know she’s hurting, I can’t help but feel that Cohen is getting treated unfairly in the situation. Tell me what you guys think in the comments below! And forgive me for typos on this. I wrote it SUPER quick this morning and now I need to go tend to my little guy! But I will respond to comments this afternoon!