Last night’s Bachelor in Paradise was hard to watch. Well, the end was at least. My heart broke for Carly when Kirk let her go. You could tell by Kirk’s reaction that he had no idea how much him breaking it off would hurt Carly. Guys can be obliviousabout stuff like this sometimes. And his timing was TERRIBLE! I mean, worst timing possible! That said, I really don’t think Kirk is a bad guy and I don’t think Carly thinks that. In fact, she posted a picture of them together just hours before the episode aired yesterday.
As you can see in the caption, she is in good spirits and even made a joke about him. I feel like this was her way of letting the world know she isn’t mad a Kirk.
In fact, a couple weeks ago when we were texting I said this to her
“I love you and Kirk together. He’s such a good guy.”
She responded with
“Kirk is a good guy. I agree.”
When I sent my text, I didn’t even think TWICE that she might not be with him anymore (stupid of me). But as you can see from her response, I don’t think there is any bad blood between them. I’m sure they have talked since the show and all is forgiven. Which I have to commend Carly for. It would be really hard for me to forgive a guy if he broke my heart like that. But she has forgiven him showing us how strong and loving she is. And if she can forgive him, all of us should too.
Oh, and come back to my blog tomorrow because I’ll have an exclusive interview with Carly abut Kirk.
I also wanna talk about Ashley and Jared for a second. I was surprised to find that over the past few episodes, I started to root for them. They both seem to have huge hearts. Look, I get that Ashley may be a bit much sometimes. And she cries A LOT. But I think that is because she does love so much and care so much. She’s just young and still learning about relationships and what she is looking to get out of a relationship. She even said it herself when she was saying goodbye. She grew up a lot in Paradise and she’ll continue to grow moving forward. And it seemed like Jared really cared for her. He saw the good in her. But it just wasn’t enough to keep them together. I wish them both the best. I hope the both find love. And I have to say that BIP made me a huge fan of Jared’s. I have to admit I was skeptical of him all along. I don’t really know why, I just was (which totally isn’t fair to him, which is why I didn’t write about it). But he has won me over. Such a stand up guy. He’ll make a girl very happy one day.
Now on to my favorite outfits.
Tenley looked fab in a red strapless dress at the rose ceremony. I asked her about her earrings because I’m a huge fan of anything with a tassel and she told me they are from Forever 21 and under $8. Score. You can get them HERE
I also really loved Sam’s date outfit. I seem to really love her clothes in general. Girl knows how to dress! The white crop top and black skirt combo is great because you can switch out a statement necklace and basically make a new outfit. Also, if you want to hide your tummy, just wear a high-waist skirt and get the same look without showing skin 🙂 ( I LOVE THIS ONE)
And finally, my outfit while watching BIP. The top I’m wearing in this pic is a FAV of mine. It’s flattering and hides my tummy on days I’m feeling bloated (Like when I’m drinking wine out of this “Olivia Pope” wine glass). Plus I love the lace detail and the color and so does Kevin (he always compliments the color when I wear it) – but it also comes in white and dark yellow. For makeup I have on my favorite mascara and a light pinky nude lip.
What did you guys think of last night’s episode? Are you mad at Kirk? Surprised about Ashley and Jared? Who do you think will get engaged tonight? Let’s discuss in the comments below!