Comments on: Bachelor In Paradise – Jordan Kimball is Back! https://www.alimanno.com/blog/2019/08/12/bachelor-in-paradise-jordan-kimball-is-back/ Motherhood, Fashion and Lifestyle Tue, 20 Aug 2019 01:20:45 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.9.4 By: Agreed https://www.alimanno.com/blog/2019/08/12/bachelor-in-paradise-jordan-kimball-is-back/#comment-138839 Tue, 20 Aug 2019 01:20:45 +0000 https://www.alimanno.com/?p=12374#comment-138839 In reply to Happy Girl.

I completely agree with this! Why is everyone on that beach and on the internet blind to this ?

]]> By: Kari https://www.alimanno.com/blog/2019/08/12/bachelor-in-paradise-jordan-kimball-is-back/#comment-138685 Thu, 15 Aug 2019 22:21:08 +0000 https://www.alimanno.com/?p=12374#comment-138685 In reply to Happy Girl.

I completrly agree with you. Nicole went out with 3 guys and no one is calling her a player and saying all this stuff behind her back, even when she went back to Clay after the date and said no one is better that you. Its Paradise, it’s what they all do, and it upsets me that every girl on paradise is attacking what Hannah is doing. This is what Dylan agreed on by coming to paradise. Hannah isn’t leading him on.

]]> By: Happy Girl https://www.alimanno.com/blog/2019/08/12/bachelor-in-paradise-jordan-kimball-is-back/#comment-138629 Thu, 15 Aug 2019 00:49:45 +0000 https://www.alimanno.com/?p=12374#comment-138629 I’m late to comment, because I only now just finished the episode, but holy moly are people all over hard on Blake! Dylan likes Hannah, he monopolizes her time, and she clearly is meh about him. Just because he’s sweet and dotes on her doesn’t mean she owes him ANYTHING. I can’t stand it when people think women should be grateful for a guy’s devotion (whether she wanted it or not) and should be vilified for turning him down when her interests lay elsewhere. It’s such an obnoxious way to control people. You may LOVE someone (here Dylan is the fan favorite) but that doesn’t mean anyone they are interested in doesn’t have say about them as a romantic partner, or are bad because they aren’t interested.

Hannah wants to have fun. Hannah is curious about Blake. Hannah is a grown woman who is young and has many options. Dylan may be thrilled at the idea of locking down a desirable prospect, but that doesn’t mean he deserves it, just because he wants it so badly. Frankly, he’s superficial, because no one on that beach (or us watching at home) know Hannah that well, and his craziness about her is based solely on her beauty. He doesn’t care about getting to know anyone else because he finds her the most attractive. Her actions show she is not sure about him, he doesn’t know if she is a worthwhile or good person, all in a very short time, he has become possessive of her because of her external and him not wanting anyone to take his trophy away.

She is a people pleaser (clearly) and non-confrontational, but that doesn’t mean the first guy to claim her gets her. She is a person. She owes him NOTHING, and if she was goofing around with someone else and they started to kiss, well… why was everyone watching them? Mind your business. Stop egging Dylan on. This whole thing annoys me. Hannah doesn’t belong to anyone, and I’m riled up about it because I see this happen to women a lot. She is bad if she doesn’t want a guy back who wants her JUST based on her external, before he even really knows her (or cares to really know her), and everyone thinks his weird, superficial devotion is so sweet. It’s not. It’s weird.

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