https://www.alimanno.com/blog/2018/03/06/bachelor-proposal-heartbreak/ Motherhood, Fashion and Lifestyle Sat, 10 Mar 2018 11:30:57 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.9.4 https://www.alimanno.com/blog/2018/03/06/bachelor-proposal-heartbreak/#comment-67172 Sat, 10 Mar 2018 11:30:57 +0000 https://aliluvs.com/?p=7502#comment-67172 One final thought. If Arie ever becomes the father of a little girl would he want a young man to do what he did to Becca?

]]> https://www.alimanno.com/blog/2018/03/06/bachelor-proposal-heartbreak/#comment-66979 Thu, 08 Mar 2018 17:47:00 +0000 https://aliluvs.com/?p=7502#comment-66979 I actually think the the break up and seeing Lauren happened without cameras. And THEN the producers promised Becca to be a bachelorette IF they could redo the whole break up on film.
That is why a Becca was so cool calm and collected and why lauren was so happy to see arie bc everything had already happened.

]]> https://www.alimanno.com/blog/2018/03/06/bachelor-proposal-heartbreak/#comment-66968 Thu, 08 Mar 2018 16:13:14 +0000 https://aliluvs.com/?p=7502#comment-66968 I feel like we also all must really think through what Arie must have been going through during the show and give him a little grace. He must have felt pressure to propose because after all, this is The Bachelor, and a proposal is almost expected and desired by the millions of people watching. I know there have been people before that didn’t get engaged or even pick one of the two women at the end (i.e. Jaun Pablo and Brad Womack) but, for me as a watcher, it was a less than desired ending. We all want to see that “Fairy Tale Ending.” I think after spending many weeks with these two women, while I’m not sure what it’s like to love two people simultaneously or at least care deeply for them, but I could see how he could’ve been conflicted and thought he was in love with both of them. I think it also must have been easy to be swayed by his parents since they thought he should be with Becca more. In my opinion, after watching the season, I had a feeling that Arie was deeply in love with Lauren, more so than any of the other girls. They may not have had the best edit but by the way he spoke about her in his interviews, it seemed to me like he had a connection with her that he didn’t with the other girls. I think he knew that deep down Becca was the logical and safe choice. His parents loved her, she was super confident and open about their relationship but he truly loved Lauren. I think he was trying to make the “right” decision by choosing Becca and then realized soon after that he made the wrong choice. Anyways, I feel bad that Becca had to go through that because that would be so hard to go through, however, I also feel bad for Arie as well because that must be hard being blasted on social media when in reality, the audience will never know the whole story.

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